Jennifer Blankl - Certified Relationship &
Marriage Coach
Your love story is worth fighting for.
Does it feel like the spark in your marriage has faded under the weight of endless to-do lists, demanding careers, and the chaos of parenting? You’re not alone. Many hardworking, career-driven parents find themselves stuck in a cycle of disconnection—living under the same roof but feeling miles apart.
As a certified relationship and marriage coach, I specialize in helping couples like you break free from the “roommate” rut. Through proven techniques and heartfelt guidance, I’ll help you:
- Reconnect emotionally—so you feel heard, understood, and truly seen.
- Revive intimacy—beyond the bedroom, rekindling the spark that brought you together.
- Rebuild teamwork—so you’re navigating life’s challenges as partners, not competitors.
You don’t have to choose between a thriving career, loving your kids, and a fulfilling marriage—you can have it all. Imagine feeling excited to see your partner again, sharing deep conversations, and laughing like you used to.
It’s time to take your relationship from surviving to thriving. Let’s work together to create the marriage you imagined in the first place.
I help busy, hardworking professionals ignite connection, excitement, and physical & emotional intimacy… even when they feel they don’t have the time, energy or desire to “work” on their relationship.
STOP LIVING LIKE ROOMMATES, transform your relationship, and create a NEW LOVE with the partner you ALREADY have.
As seen LIVE on KOIN NEWS’ AM EXTRA every-other-Wednesday morning at 8:35am answering YOUR relationship and marriage questions!
December 21, 2022 Segment
- How to ask your spouse to take better care of themself
Q1: “HOW DO YOU TELL YOUR SPOUSE… that you’ve been happily married to for 25 years that you would like them to take better care of their appearance???… I don’t want to hurt my husband’s feelings… but I’d like him to shave and get a haircut regularly and wear at least somewhat fashionable clothes.”
-Barbara
Q2: “I want to invite my partner to a family New Year’s party, but we haven’t been dating that long. How soon is too soon?” – Anonymous
August 17, 2022 Segment
- How to DIVORCE-PROOF your marriage
- How to ask a person out on a date
Q1: “What’s the best way I can ask a person out on a date?”-Anonymous:
Q2: “How do I get my wife to stop complaining about how much I work?” – Rick
Q3: “I just married the woman of my dreams. She’s my third marriage. How do I divorce-proof my life with my new wife?” – Tim
May 24, 2023 Segment
- What to do if one person in the marriage wants to improve the relationship.
- How to get your husband to understand you’re not trying to control him when you’re asking for help.
Q1: “How do you deal with the fact that you’re the only one that wants to work to improve your marriage?” -Anonymous
Q2: “How do I get my husband to understand that I’m not trying to control him when I’m simply asking for help?” -Marla
April 12, 2023 Segment
- Partner’s outgoing personality is unnerving, edges on flirtation
Q1: “My partner is an extrovert and super chatty/outgoing. Normally it doesn’t bother me but there are times when the conversations with strangers border on flirting. I don’t think she’d ever be unfaithful, but am I wrong to get upset when she gives strangers this much attention?”
March 1, 2023 Segment
- What to do if your partner has different political views than you?
Q1: “What do you suggest when two people in a relationship have different political views? We’ve been in a 20-year relationship… but the DIVISIVE POLITICAL ENVIRONMENT has startd affecting things.” – Anonymous
As heard live on KNX 971.1FM News Radio in LA
Life’s deepest fulfillment comes not from accomplishments, or things, but from our most intimate relationships. What would it look like and feel like to be able to transform the relationship you have with your partner so that you can experience deeper, more meaningful connection, more playfulness, more passion, more deeper understanding of one another, and more growth?
How would that transform the quality of your life?
Truly happy and fulfilling relationships don’t just happen to those more fortunate. As the old adage goes, “soul mates aren’t born… they’re created.” Feeling stuck and alone inside a committed relationship can feel suffocating and affects all aspects of your life. Stop wasting precious time waiting for things to blow over or change on their own. WIN with your partner again and successfully create the big, huge shifts in your relationship that lead to the LASTING CHANGE you most want and need.
A rogue wave that never flattens. Time standing still. Buckling to a fetal position in a hallway. I’ve been there. We all have. I came to Jennifer to see me through the gray canopy when a very meaningful long term relationship suddenly ended. Jennifer gifted me so much more than I ever expected. Her acceptance, guidance and tailored nudging has helped me evolve into an emotionally intelligent, communicative, vulnerable and more solid self. By far, the number one comment I get these days is how grounded I am. I will carry with me what I have learned from Jennifer for a lifetime.”
She is dedicated to your development and improvement as a individual/parter/team. My wife and I had the pleasure of hiring Jennifer early last year as we approached our wedding day. I highly encourage you to speak with Jennifer if you desire to become the best husband/wife/team you can image. Jennifer has a unique approach that is tailored to your communication style, goals and experience in life.” – Addison Nett, Portland, OR
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“It was through Jennifer’s guidance that I was able to change the story I was telling myself to reach a breakthrough in my personal life. Through her knowledge and, more importantly, her kind and open demeanor she encouraged me to do the work and was able to offer additional recommendations for readings and teachings for me to do in addition to the work we were doing together. I trust her and would definitely love to work with her again!”
“Jennifer has a heart so big and full of passion for what she does! Her goal is to help you set healthy boundaries as you dive deep inside looking at your hearts desires. Working with her will help you see the best in yourself and others as you move forward creating change.”
What struggles are you facing in your relationships right now?
- Certified Strategic Interventionist, Robbins-Madanes Institute, June, 2014
- Certified Life & Relationship Coach, Robbins-Madanes Institute, June, 2014
- Certified in Marriage Education and Divorce Prevention, June, 2014
- B.A., Communications, University of California, Santa Barbara, 1997
